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Genderfluid Shapeshifting?????

Hi!! So I think that I'm Genderfluid (I've been going with this label for like 5+ months, and have been using fluid gender labels for a long time before tthattt) And recently I started to realize that my face.. Changes...

So uh.. Most people know how boy's faces and girl's faces look different, right? My face can be one or the other, both at the same time, neither, or a combination. And it's not just my bias from already knowing my gender, since one of my friends had brought it up to me before (Boy day, and she had forced me to do a little photoshoot thing for her, and she had braided my hair, but the braid wasn't visible with how i had my head turned and stuff, and she had told me, "Move your braid! You look like a little boy!!" And um.. Boy day so in the end she did have forcefully move my hair, but wtvv) and then just recently I asked a different friend what gender my face looked like on an Agender day. He said Agender.

Is this just a thing that happens?? Other fluid gender people or flux gender people, please tell me if you've noticed stuff like this??? Does your face just.. Change to match ur Gender??? Please helpp =(

Wiring that huge essay didnt make me less horny sadly.

Why NOT

siiigh some things are beyond our control

actually when you ask someone if it's a girl or a boy you ask them what they have in their pants, it's a bit disgusting

Now that’s some equality that we can agree on.

take a shot every time a TRA makes death threats or wishes death upon someone

I am a woman, and that used to make me uncomfortable. I became a trans man, and I was still uncomfortable. Now I'm a radical feminist, and I am finally comfortable.

I hope you realise many of us women wish no harm on trans people, we just know women will never be liberated and comfortable in their own skin while subscribing to an ideology that preaches otherwise.

If you don’t wish harm, prove it. Ditch TERFism. It’s not that fucking hard.

But you won’t, will you? Because TERFs never change. You were never a trans man. Just a TERF in the making masquerading as one.

Your words will remain meaningless until you change, which you will never do. Just endless bigoted babble.

The lie that testosterone is going to harm your gorgeous body is the most sinister thing I can think to tell young men. Testosterone is not going to make you sick, harm you, or turn you into an unrecognizable monster.

Testosterone is going to make you happier than you’ve ever been in your life. Testosterone is going to make you look down at yourself and finally smile, because the yearning is over. Your skin and your bones finally fit just right, instead of feeling foreign and out of place. Testosterone is going to let you finally reach an enlightened, happier version of yourself. Why would you ever tell someone the opposite if it’s not out of hatred and wishing to see them suffer?

I will never understand the narrative that people have to stay the same throughout their life when it comes to orientations and identities.

Hey, it's almost like people change constantly and things don't have to be set in stone?

Isn't the expectation that we change and stay changing since we have plenty of life lived and unlived?

People can be queer and not have their identities be forever, cishet people always question about whether queer people are sure about it or if they'll change their mind and it's like, maybe, so what? How is that the worst thing? When it comes to genderqueer people most understand surgery and what it means in the long run but so what? What's it to you, the person that isn't in their skin? Dear gods give it a rest.

first of all, you calling abortion “genitalia-related” is already an indicator of your level of intelligence.

second of all, do you think rapists, murderers and molesters ask gender identity of their victims? do you think on job interviews they ask women their gender or if they’re planning pregnancy before not hiring? no, they see that you’re female and assume you’ll take a pregnancy leave one day or think you’re not as qualified as a man.

you’re trying to erase women’s reality, our everyday struggles, our history as an oppressed group. it never was and never will be about gender.

Sex is why women are opressed

Gender is how

“It is important to address the growing concerns about the conflation of autism with gender identity, which has led to the misrepresentation of autistic traits and the suppression of essential autism-related information.”

Autism and Gender Ideology: Why Misdiagnoses Harm Autistic Individuals

"Defining women as "adult human females" is so limiting"

Literally how? It's just defining the most basic physical traits, and you have complete freedom from there. "Adult human female" prescribes nothing about personality, interests, values, style, talents, skills, careers, or capabilities. Defining womanhood or non-womanhood as a feeling based on stereotypes of gender, meanwhile, is EXACTLY what I'd call "limiting."

Just the meme I needed.

Short version: So like… gender? What?

Long version: I am relatively sure I’m genderfluid, I identify with experiences of womanhood and having grown up as a girl so like sometimes I’ll say ‘the struggles we face in society’ but if someone asked me if I was a woman my response would be anywhere between no and crying depending on how masculine a day I was having and like? Am I shrodingers woman?

Whenever I think about the entire “trans people confuse me” topic I always think of kids and how easily accepting they are. My younger brother has brown eyes and I (AFAB) have blue eyes, and so when we were quite young he came to the conclusion that because of that, all girls had blue eyes and all boys had brown eyes. And my mother, who had brown eyes looked at him and said “well, look at mummy’s eyes, what colour are they?” Obviously with the intention of showing him that eye colour had nothing to do with gender, but instead, my brother just looked at her and went “oh! Mummy, you must be a boy” and I mean it really is that simple. Tolerance isn’t even taught it’s bigotry that is taught and why people become homophobic or transphobic or and other label that just means “I’m a massive dick”. My younger brother would have been perfectly happy for our mom to be a boy, he didn’t give a damn lol and neither should anyone else.

Trans tips #7!

It's okay to experiment with your Gender and Sexuality!

It's okay to go through the full cycle to find what works best for you!

And now! A comprehensive list of all of my sexuality and gender changes from the start of my journey to now, to be used as an example:

Straight! Cis Woman! I had a boyfriend who cornered me at a school dance to ask me out! I didn't like him, but i had no spine so...we dated for a year without kissing or holding hands or anything...

Pan! Cis Woman! I met queer friends who introduced me to the concept of Gender and Sexuality! I still consider Pansexuality as absence of Gender in the criteria for dating...also broke up with that boyfriend

Bi! Cis Woman! I also considered Bisexuality to be some consideration of Gender in the criteria of dating

Lesbian! Cis Woman! I made alot of jokes about slowly excluding men or masc presenting people from the dating pool

Gay! Cis Woman? I started thinking about Gender Expression a bit more, Gay was a safe umbrella term for me to explore under

*this is when I met my fiance...we started dating the same night we met...(insert uhaul joke here)*

Gay! Non binary Woman? Started messing with they/them Pronouns, at the time it was something like She/They

Gay! Non binary! This was a short time frame where I felt an absence of femininity within myself, anything fem!presenting made me uncomfortable (makeup, clothing, ect)

Gay! Gender Fluid! I actually came out like this to my younger sibling first because I knew they could be trusted. Also made jokes about stealing everyone's Gender because alot of my friends started coming out at some form of NB...also I had bursts of hyper femininity followed by long bouts of masculinity...until I stopped feeling feminine for a year and was in full denial that it would come back (every time I looked at my feminine clothing in my closet I felt sick, this is when I knew what was coming)

Queer! Gender Fluid! Queer fit me better considering i was He/They/She/It dating a They/She (Side note I don't really go by it, I just live in the Bible belt where morons call me "it" to make me feel bad, if I include it at least they're still gendering me correctly)

Queer! Transgender! Me currently :) I've given all of my feminine clothing to my cousin in law, and with my fiances support I've been coming out to my family.

I know I am in a safe place to do so now that I have my own place with people I trust! I will make another post on coming out next! NOT THE POINT

POINT IS GENDER AND SEXUALITY CAN CHANGE AND YOU CAN EXPERIMENT UNTIL YOU FIND OUT WHATS RIGHT FOR YOU!!!

Also don't rush into decisions! Each of these transitions took months to a year before I figured it was right! This whole process took 7 years and I only just came out as Trans at the beginning of the new year 2025!

But take your time to get a feel for these things, it can take time to adjust and feel your feelings about certain things! You got this and I'm proud of you!

Is my gender a punit’s square?

recently I was talking to my friend and I realised my gender comes to me in two modes: how I want to dress/carry myself, and what I want to physically feel like. So the combinations are

male body, “male” clothes. Male body, “female” clothes. Female body, “ female” clothes. Female body “male” clothes.

some days it feels like no gender at all. Am I gender fluid or a gender or what? Pls help me. I have no one at home to talk about this to.

No, dad, despite identifying as a female, i want you to grasp the reality, which is that you can't provide me with daintypop fairylace deodorant ™️, clinically engineered to smell like pink tax and dutch tulip fields. My body is wretched enough to warrant ICESTORM BLAST (for dude-ly men), the one with a tiger on the bottle, badly photoshopped flames, legally classified as fuel

Friendly reminder that gender, sexuality and your fashion sense absolutely do not have to reflect each other and are things IRRESPECTIVE OF EACH OTHER.

You can absolutely be comfortable with your she/her pronouns, with being a woman and still choose to have a masc presenting fashion sense. You can be completely cool with your assigned gender and still cross dress.

Feeling pretty? Floral? Gay? Hella boyish? Like a princess? A drag queen? A white swan or a black crow?

Go for it. Absolutely go for it!!

PS. If you are a minor and stuck in a rather unaccepting environment, please don't let go of yourself or your identity, but keep yourself safe. College will be better. Growing up will make this aspect easier. You will move out. Wait for the financial independence and then go for it!! <3

I first time did a post about radfem and got bullied but y’all mfs won’t silence me. I will talk again and again and again till y’all will be sick of it. Stay tuned and hydrated 💋🫶

when you start reading gender theory you look at everything mundane with different eyes. yesterday I was browsing ao3 for some bed night smut (usual) and came across the tag "Forced Feminization" in a lesbian relationship."feminization for woman.. wow how rare... why not masculanazation(?) huh? " I though to myself before I realized there can't be masculanazation cause being masculine is just to be without the need to change anything, that's why having hair is seen as a act of treason by fellow woman who adhere to societal standards where feminity has been equal to perform for the past thousand of years.

I'm sure that I'm an agender, but suddenly I started to want to become a guy, yet still want to dress feminine and cute. What am I?

Gender is like a label. with your category on it.

Imagine this: a pink label, a blue label. You place it in your shirt when you enter this job. Pink label employees and blue label employees are percieved as different. But then, things start to get weird.

As pink label employees are sorted out of blue labels to work in other stuff, blue labels see them as inferior because of their "easy work". There's a lot of fights going on because of the "disbalanced" work, when both labels get the same treatment and work. But now, they no longer do. Now the treatment to pink labels is worse. And then every person introduced to the workplace is introduced to a (labelist) mindset where the both labels are against each other. They're always disbalanced, even if they are assigned the same amount of work. There's still people who slack and people who work extra hours, but it comes down to their choice. Until it no longer does.

And then, someone doesn't like their label.

Maybe someone feels better with the blue label on them.

Maybe someone would prefer a yellow label.

do you ever forget there are people out there that genuinely believe they have the one and only solution to gender/sexuality and anyone who doesn’t see it that way is homophobic/transphobic despite the fact they themselves are pushing the same gender binary they claim to hate so much by separating men women and gender nonconformity into three distinct categories, essentially creating a traffic light system for how we should treat others based on one of the most insignificant aspect of themselves? because i did until this morning

i’m so tired of every single argument that revolves queerness or gender being so reliant on these heteronormative binaries that simply don’t make sense to apply to ourselves.