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Pretending you're fine when people cross your boundaries doesn't make you a really nice person, it just makes you a really shitty communicator. Far too many people pride themselves on being "too nice" when it's just that they have zero conflict resolution skills and will seethe in resentment for months instead of articulating the problem

Saturn Devouring His Son enjoyers rise

"these researchers published a paper on something that literally any of us could have told you 🙄" ok well my supervisors wont let me write something in my thesis unless I can back it up with a citation so maybe it's a good thing that they're amplifying your voice to the scientific community in a way that prevents people from writing off your experiences as annecdotal evidence

The realm of the elderings tumblr experience is seeing fanart of a funky little jester, being like “ooo who’s that?” and then having to wade through several giant books he’s barely in.

theres bikes around the city you can rent but you have to use an app that needs your drivers license. theres buses that drive right to your destination, but if you dont have change you need the app. you can wash your car here if you sign into the app. you can go to the bathroom here you just have to unlock it with the app that needs your location on. you can order at this restaurant if you scan the code and download the app. im losing my freaking mind

people aren't as cool anymore because they love to be very vocal about what they wish to emulate. it's supposed to be your own little secret. for you, only. leaving everyone else wondering how you do it

My Missing Wedding Ring Finger – A bittersweet comic about queer identity as exorcism.

cw: implied violence, comphet.

monoculture forests are deeply unsettling in a way that is hard to explain to people who do not spend a lot of time looking at forests

logan's dead and all the women lost their illusion of power. the men are looking for MEN to substitute logan, women are our of the question. karl and frank together against gerry and karolina. kendall and roman leaving shiv on the sidelines. kerry isn't useful to anyone anymore. marcia and willa are only safe because of their written on paper relationships to logan and connor.

donde está mi butch que luzca como tony soprano???

the butch/femme scene of 1990s san francisco by chloe sherman