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7 months ago

A big pet peeve of mine is when people like. Ignore togata's flaws ? Like, yeah, togata's a badass but I saw a post that was like "togata is so cool he's trans AND kills rapists" as if that scene didn't start with togata preparing to film a 13 year old getting gang raped for the sake of his movie....like the entire point of his character is how he's slowly going insane and only relying on Fantasy as a form of escapism to live, therefore prioritizing Fantasy to the reality of the situation. Who cares if I hurt a few people (or hurt myself) if this movie will turn out better? And, yeah, he's lying about it, but like a huge theme of the story is how fiction can turn into reality quite easily. Togata isn't really a bad guy (and I never will claim him to be) but he has decided he doesn't need his emotions, he wants to be the badass, cool, older sister character...but he can't be, and his entire arc is him slowly going insane as he fakes everything to the point where he can't tell who he really is. But in the end, does it really matter who he is inside when all that matters is what the viewers see? The viewers see him as a flippant, apathetic, badass and who would want the real togata, a person lost to history...I gotted side tracked where am i


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4 years ago

I Had Said No

I said no.

Again and again

I said no.

Did you not hear that?

I said no.

But my words did not erect a wall of protection around me.

It's dirty, filthy touch still managed to seep through my defenses and scar my soul.

The moment it withdrew its claws,

I ran.

I ran and ran and ran.

On the way,

I bumped into a lady.

Her eyes were blindfolded

With a beam balance in one hand

And a sword in the other

I asked her to help me.

She told me that she doesn't see any sin

I repeated again

That I had said no.

But to her, my consent didn't matter

'Cause I said, "I do."

On that day at the altar.


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1 year ago

hey man. uh. you realize behind every post of incest, every drawing of like, a minor and and adult being together (sexually or otherwise, ew), behind every profile who gets off to like the whole "stalker and like sadistic torturer rapist x regular person" shit and behind *anything* fictional, is like, a real person, right?

A likely mentally delusional person, or something. Because why would that even be in your mind? why would someone even consider that would be sexy or whatever. fiction isn't really, like, an excuse???? this isn't even about nacho and lalo anymore man

I HATE NACHO X LALO SO MUUUCHHHHH

I HATE NACHO X LALO SO MUUUCHHHHH

this poor man just wanted to have a peaceful life with his father and then LALO SHOWED UP FUCK ALL YOU DIPSHITS


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2 years ago

me getting ready to defend Light because he killed rapists, murderers, human traffickers and so on

Me Getting Ready To Defend Light Because He Killed Rapists, Murderers, Human Traffickers And So On

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4 years ago

its kind of terrifying to me to see all the tags on my post that say tw incest? like I knew in my rational brain that technically thats was my assault falls under because he is my uncle but a part of me was thinking maybe it doesnt count because hes related by marriage not blood. maybe it was just my brain trying to make me feel better about it. as if that makes it any less horrific.


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4 years ago

OH MY GOD I didn’t even know any of this!!!! thank you so much for the advice, this is so helpful!!!!Ā you’re right I definitely do need to make plans for a long stay out of state and a hotel roomĀ so I can take both doses and pass everything from my body. I am genuinely so glad you told me this because I would have just gone home afterward jesus christ. I absolutelyĀ cant risk anyone in my family, ESPECIALLY my parents, noticing what my body is going through and finding out about my abortion happening right under their roof or everything would hit the fucking fan in a terrifying way

I think now I have raise my goal to at least $1970 for the pill, a ton of pads, food and gas, and a hotel to stay at for at least a week with my cousin while my body finishes going through the process of the abortion. I’m so so sorry to have to ask, I know everyone is struggling so much in these times right now but I really do need the help. seeing this massive outpouring ofĀ compassion, love, and support means more to me than I’m able to put into words. you guys are literally helping me save my life.

p*ypal.com/p*ypalme/oblongsun

c*sh.app/$oblongsun

I was assaulted and now I’m pregnant, please help me get an abortion

I was forcefully outed to my family about a year agoĀ by a vindictive ex friend when he asked me tobe his gf and I trusted him enough to tell him noĀ because I’m gay. my whole family was horrified and I just barely avoided being sent to conversion camp by swearing to my them that I wasn’t acting on it physically. two months later, they sent me to live with my father’s sister and her husband in another state for seven months and the last few weeks that I was there my uncle assaulted me several times, claiming that he was going toĀ ā€œteach me to enjoy what god wants me to loveā€. I was so traumatized by the assault and my state of mind only got worse when I went back home because my parents could tell something was different and they interpreted it as having been succesfully ā€œconvertedā€ by my time with my aunt and uncle.

my absolute worst fear was realized when I saw my doctor two weeks ago and he told me I was pregnant. Im only 16 I know I cannot handle having a child especially as theĀ product of my assault. in tenessee abortion laws are so rigid and restrictive and there aren’t even any clinics close to me that can help. I’m afraid any place in state will tell my parents what I’m trying to do because I’m so young. my only chance is to go out of state with my cousin for the abortion pill which will cost me at least $970 because I’m completely uninsured. I’m already about a month along so I have six weeks left to take the pill successfully.Ā I beat myself up every day for not just denying the truth and telling them my friend was just angry at me and lying because he knew they’d be disgsted. my anxiety has never been thsi bad, I don’t know what I’ll do to myself if I can’t get this abortion. I haven’t even told me parents because I’m so terrified they won’t even just deny the truth and they’ll actually lock me away and force me to keep the baby. please I’m poor and so desperate and so fucking scared, please please please help me.

p*ypal.com/p*ypalme/oblongsun

c*sh.app/$oblongsun


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4 years ago

I was assaulted and now I’m pregnant, please help me get an abortion

I was forcefully outed to my family about a year agoĀ by a vindictive ex friend when he asked me tobe his gf and I trusted him enough to tell him noĀ because I’m gay. my whole family was horrified and I just barely avoided being sent to conversion camp by swearing to my them that I wasn’t acting on it physically. two months later, they sent me to live with my father’s sister and her husband in another state for seven months and the last few weeks that I was there my uncle assaulted me several times, claiming that he was going toĀ ā€œteach me to enjoy what god wants me to loveā€. I was so traumatized by the assault and my state of mind only got worse when I went back home because my parents could tell something was different and they interpreted it as having been succesfully "convertedā€ by my time with my aunt and uncle.

my absolute worst fear was realized when I saw my doctor two weeks ago and he told me I was pregnant. Im only 16 I know I cannot handle having a child especially as theĀ product of my assault. in tenessee abortion laws are so rigid and restrictive and there aren’t even any clinics close to me that can help. I’m afraid any place in state will tell my parents what I’m trying to do because I’m so young. my only chance is to go out of state with my cousin for the abortion pill which will cost me at least $970 because I’m completely uninsured. I’m already about a month along so I have six weeks left to take the pill successfully.Ā I beat myself up every day for not just denying the truth and telling them my friend was just angry at me and lying because he knew they’d be disgsted. my anxiety has never been thsi bad, I don’t know what I’ll do to myself if I can’t get this abortion. I haven’t even told me parents because I’m so terrified they won’t even just deny the truth and they’ll actually lock me away and force me to keep the baby. please I’m poor and so desperate and so fucking scared, please please please help me.

p*ypal.com/p*ypalme/oblongsun

c*sh.app/$oblongsun


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9 years ago

Feminism (n.) Ā The theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes. (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/feminism).

People saying that men can’t be raped are by definition not feminists, therefore it is nonsensical to use them as an example of why you aren’t a feminist.

Yes, men can get raped. But that’s not an argument against feminism

Basically Why I’m Not A Feminist

Basically why I’m not a feminist


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5 years ago

Facebook when a woman is beaten by her boyfriend: 😔😔😔😔😠😠😠😠😱😱😱😭

Facebook when a man is beaten by his girlfriend: šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜˜šŸ˜˜āœŒļøāœŒļøāœŒļø


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4 years ago

How to talk someone out of suicide?

I met someone on this random app the other day who wanted me to read their suicide note. I talked them out of suicide but they still want to do it tonight. I don't know exactly where they live soni can't get them help. I don't know anyone who lives close to them. They say they have no one and that their dad rapes them and their mom is dead, they've never met their extended family and their friends r shit. Any advice?

They can't leave their house, if anyone lives in LA would b able.tondrive them it would b good to know


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4 years ago

Rape Escape

Easy and very effective

Requires nothing but your body

Includes attack


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11 months ago

FREE UYGHURS!!

TW: RAPE

FREE UYGHURS!!

Free Uyghursā€¼ļøšŸ«šŸ«


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2 years ago

TW: domestic violence, sexual assault

Today’s material that I’m studying is incredibly challenging and triggering for me. I’m a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault. It’s been long enough that I don’t think about it every day, but studying about violence and gender this week is tough.

I’ll be glad when it’s next week.


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4 years ago

Help!!!!!

Trigger Warning!

Hey everyone. I'm here to ask for your help. Mariana Ferrer is a brazilian girl who's been raped at december of 2018 after beeing druged. Today was the judgment day of her rapist. His defense claimed that since the toxicologic test she took didn't show any substances she was able to consent (we all believe that he forged the results since he's a rich and influent man) and even with proofs like her dress dirty of blood and sperm the judge said he's innocent since it was an "unintentional rape". Those are some of the things she had to hear during the trial:

"There is no point in coming with your disingenous fake tears and your crocodile talking"

"I pray my son never find a woman like you"

"It's your bread an butter manipulating that virgin story"

I'm sorry if there are any mistakes in my writing, but I'm just too pissed to google every word. PLEASE sing this petition asking for justice. It's very important to all of us, brazilian women, making this case have repercution.

https://www.change.org/p/tribunal-de-justi%C3%A7a-de-sc-justi%C3%A7a-por-mariana-ferrer?utm_content=cl_sharecopy_22754503_pt-BR%3A2&recruiter=842364179&recruited_by_id=792c3660-e022-11e7-a9c7-4d4f3fbbb0cf&utm_source=share_petition&utm_medium=copylink&utm_campaign=psf_combo_share_initial&utm_term=psf_combo_share_abi

Sign the Petition
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JustiƧa por Mariana Ferrer

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5 months ago
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An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

ā€œYou good?ā€ Sevika asks, and Vi barks out a laugh.

ā€œOh yeah. Fucking peachy.ā€ She says through grit teeth, then sucks in smoke harder than was necessary to avoid elaborating.

Sevika leans her shoulder against the wall beside Vi, looking down at her, expression unreadable. There was a bruise forming in the shape of Vi’s knuckles on her jaw. Lucky shot. The only real hit Vi had managed to get in.

ā€œThere’s some girls at Babette’s who can’t do penetration either,ā€ Sevika offers, and Vi bristles.

***

Vi has some old wounds that never healed. Sevika likes to pick at them. They find a way to start healing them together.

***

I debated posting this here. Trigger warning for rape, panic attacks, ptsd, and violence.


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3 years ago

Update: In June 2020, seven months after Hara's death, Jong-bum (ver ex-boyfriend šŸ’©) was sentenced to a year in prison in the revenge-porn case, with a SouthĀ Korean court rulingĀ (via theĀ South China Morning Post) that Jong-bum hadĀ "seriously damaged" Hara's reputation and left her with "irreversible trauma."

Goo Hara's story is one of the most tragic and rough in kpop history. And in light of the recent events, I'd like to share it.

It's pretty possible that most of you (ppl who weren't around for 2nd generation prime) dont know Goo Hara or her legendary group KARA. The group was among the top three girl groups nation wise, and number one in Japan.

But when KARA debuted it wasn't very popular, so when one member left, the company saw the opportunity to revamp the group and they added two new members. One of those was Goo Hara. She was introduced as main dancer and visual.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

Hara's integration helped the group. Her innocent beauty in contrast to an effortless sex appeal caused men and women, children and adults, to fall in love with the idol, and this new fandom catapulted the group. Even though before debut she already had many fans, she already had antis too. A big portion of the original fandom rejected the integration of Hara. So from day one Hara had a strong individual fandom, but the group's fandom hated her.

Hara became the it girl of the moment, getting all the commercial contracts - this generated animosity from the fandom that questioned why she was the only one who was given the opportunities and why she did not participate in the commercial activities of the group. This did not weigh much on Hara at first, since she was somewhat accustomed to hate for no reason - in high school she was the victim of such extreme bullying that she had to change schools several times. She had the general public in her palms, so a portion of the fandom hating her was manageable.

But the love and support from the general public didn't last long, as netizens searched the internet to find something to destroy her and succeeded. They found Hara's teenage blog from before she was and idol, and in it they found photos of her in a hostel on her 17th birthday with her boyfriend at the time. They published them saying that Hara had had a romantic stay at the hostel and therefore she had sex while being a minor. And although the company denied it and Hara's friends said it had been a group trip, the netizens sought witnesses to support their accusations and thus began the gossip that Hara was promiscuous. This accusations gained notoriety when her relationship with Junhyun of B2ST became public. And so netizens invented her love affairs with many idols.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

The situation reached a climax in Radio Star, when the MC asked KARA what topic they didn't want to talk about, to which Hara replied "dating." The three MCs started joking with Hara's promiscuity in a rather heavy way. And although it is well known that this type of image is harmful to an idol (mostly female idols) the MCs continued with the jokes. Hara tried to laugh it off but it was a comment from Kyuhyun that made her crack, being the gossip expert on the show, he said "if I said what I know, her career would be over." It was then that Hara threw him a bottle of juice playfully and then broke into tears. Hara was accused of being violent, unprofessional and disrespectful by netizens. And when one of the MCs came out in her defense and apologized for what they had done, the netizens said that "Hara's tantrums had forced him to apologize" and they hated her more.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

Shortly after this, KARA disintegrated. But despite everything, Hara made a fortune as a commercial model. And there is nothing that netizens hate more than a successful, independent and wealthy woman. Especially if she achieves so despite public hate. And even more, if this successful, independent and wealthy woman is best friends with another successful, independent and wealthy woman (Sulli) that netizens also tried to destroy. And so, Goo Hara moved on with her life, even though the hate never stopped.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

On September 4, 2018, Goo Hara (who is 1.64 and is so thin that she has been accused of being anorexic) was accused of beating her boyfriend. For the following week there were no signs of Hara, while the boyfriend appeared in the media several times a day giving interviews about it, and saying that she had gone crazy when he tried to end the relationship. He said he wasn't going to go public at first but when he got home he realized she had "disfigured" him and his face "is a big part of how he makes a living" (he's a hairdresser) so he decided to let everyone know the type of person she is. At some point the guy gave an interview in a hospital gown and connected to serum, despite having given interviews without these things several days before, and the hospital records shows he only had scratches. But despite being suspicious, the netizens did not need more, and cited what happened on radio star, her promiscuity and her friendship with Sulli as evidence of her violence and imbalance, and demanded jail time for Hara.

Time after that, Hara finally appeared on the media, which she had not done because she had been hospitalized due to the beating that the boyfriend (the alleged victim) gave her. Attack that damaged her internal organs to the degree of causing severe bleeding. Incidentally, there was damage to her intimate organs, so a rape is suspected, although it was never confirmed as such. And although Hara presented evidence and a witness, the netizens did not believe her, they said that she paid the witness and that, because she was promiscuous, her word had no worth. It was then that Dispatch revealed that the boyfriend had offered them the premise of the matter, then screenshots of the guy blackmailing Hara with an intimate video that he filmed against her will came to light. Just then the netizens decided to listen to her. The witness (Hara's roomie) came out to give her version of the facts: the guy had entered without permission with the access code and had woken Hara by kicking the bed. The witness and the messages proved that Hara had broke up with him and he wanted to blackmail her with the intimate video and threatened to end her career, Hara tried to take the video, and the guy beat her up. After that, he destroyed averything and anything he could find at the apartment, while Hara begged him not to publish the video. In the week that Hara was hospitalized the guy sent her threats and fragments of the video as blackmail.

For a while Hara had the empathy of the netizens, but the case was never resolved judicially, and the public eventually forgot what happened and attacked Hara again. This year Hara uploaded a photo to her social media for the first time, thanking the support she received in those difficult moments. And the netizens accused her of attention seeking, they said that if she was really hurt she shouldn't be on social media after what happened, and accused her of being unaware of the damage she caused her ex - who could no longer show his face in public. Soon she went to Japan to fulfill previous contracts and they accused her of fleeing, of indifference and said that what had happened hadn't been so serious if she was already working and she had made a big drama for nothing. Meanwhile the ex is active in social media and opened a new beauty salon, which was very successful. And as if that were not enough, the ex-boyfriend, Junghyun (B2ST) ended up entangled in the Seungri/Rising Sun scandal. And although it has been said that he was not an active participant beyond commenting on the videos that JJY sent, the netizens insisted that there were videos and intimate photos of Hara in the infamous chats.

After this, Hara uploaded a picture and netizens accused her of getting plastic surgery. Hara said that she had eyelid surgery for medical reasons and asked people to stop attacking her, but the netizens ignored and attacked her for the surgery.

May 25th 2019, Hara was found unconscious in her apartment. It was said it had been a suicide attempt. This incident, unlike others in the world of kpop, did not have a wave of positive and empathetic comments wishing her recovery, but the comments were insults, offenses and ridicule towards Hara. They even reproached her for her lack of success in committing suicide, accused her of faking it, said that the news were false to get attention and attacked her more than ever.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

Soon after that Hara los her best friend.

This news were devastating but they were not a surprise, at least to me. I made a post about Sulli's passing asking people to support Hara, because I knew that she would be next. She had already tried. And she got hate for not succeeding.

A lot of the kpop fandom now wasn't around for most of the second generation mess. We had idols poisoned, attacked, and destroyed by netizens. There still are many idols victims of slave contracts and abuse but back then you saw the proof of those things regularly. With idols passing out and stuff.

Korea, specifically its treatment of celebrities is crap. Its inhuman. As international fans we should spread love for idols. And ask the companies to care for them, we should watch for their best interests as humans. What Hyuna and Edawn are doing, going on variety shows and doing photoshoots together as a couple is huge. What Mamamoo has been doing is huge. What Holland is doing is huge. Please support the idols who are actively fighting to change Koreas celebrity culture. ITS IMPORTANT.

And its important to know the stories of idols like Hara, Hangeng, T-ARA... because this idols were victims and where given nothing but hate. Hate that ended their careers or in Hara and Sulli's case, their lives. Hate kills. Haters kill. Not allowing people to live a plenty life, kills. Not allowing people to make mistakes, kills. I hope you read Hara's story and pay attention to female idols with a bad reputation, they're vulnerable in so many ways. And I hope that, in the future, when an idol survives a suicide attempt y'all wont ignore it like you did Hara.

REST IN PEACEšŸ™šŸ’”šŸ’”šŸ™

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

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5 years ago
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming
Donald Trump And Republican Supporters Of SCOTUS Nominee Brett Kavanaugh Have Engaged In Victim Blaming

Donald Trump and Republican supporters of SCOTUS nominee Brett Kavanaugh have engaged in victim blaming Kavanaugh’s accuser. They insist that if Kavanaugh really did something wrong, then his accuser would have immediately come forward to report the crime.

#WhyIDidntReport is a hashtag where survivors of rape, sexual assault and molestation are sharing their reasons why they didn’t report their assaults.

This happens far too much, and it is heartbreaking.


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5 years ago

Goo Hara's story is one of the most tragic and rough in kpop history. And in light of the recent events, I'd like to share it.

It's pretty possible that most of you (ppl who weren't around for 2nd generation prime) dont know Goo Hara or her legendary group KARA. The group was among the top three girl groups nation wise, and number one in Japan.

But when KARA debuted it wasn't very popular, so when one member left, the company saw the opportunity to revamp the group and they added two new members. One of those was Goo Hara. She was introduced as main dancer and visual.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

Hara's integration helped the group. Her innocent beauty in contrast to an effortless sex appeal caused men and women, children and adults, to fall in love with the idol, and this new fandom catapulted the group. Even though before debut she already had many fans, she already had antis too. A big portion of the original fandom rejected the integration of Hara. So from day one Hara had a strong individual fandom, but the group's fandom hated her.

Hara became the it girl of the moment, getting all the commercial contracts - this generated animosity from the fandom that questioned why she was the only one who was given the opportunities and why she did not participate in the commercial activities of the group. This did not weigh much on Hara at first, since she was somewhat accustomed to hate for no reason - in high school she was the victim of such extreme bullying that she had to change schools several times. She had the general public in her palms, so a portion of the fandom hating her was manageable.

But the love and support from the general public didn't last long, as netizens searched the internet to find something to destroy her and succeeded. They found Hara's teenage blog from before she was and idol, and in it they found photos of her in a hostel on her 17th birthday with her boyfriend at the time. They published them saying that Hara had had a romantic stay at the hostel and therefore she had sex while being a minor. And although the company denied it and Hara's friends said it had been a group trip, the netizens sought witnesses to support their accusations and thus began the gossip that Hara was promiscuous. This accusations gained notoriety when her relationship with Junhyun of B2ST became public. And so netizens invented her love affairs with many idols.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

The situation reached a climax in Radio Star, when the MC asked KARA what topic they didn't want to talk about, to which Hara replied "dating." The three MCs started joking with Hara's promiscuity in a rather heavy way. And although it is well known that this type of image is harmful to an idol (mostly female idols) the MCs continued with the jokes. Hara tried to laugh it off but it was a comment from Kyuhyun that made her crack, being the gossip expert on the show, he said "if I said what I know, her career would be over." It was then that Hara threw him a bottle of juice playfully and then broke into tears. Hara was accused of being violent, unprofessional and disrespectful by netizens. And when one of the MCs came out in her defense and apologized for what they had done, the netizens said that "Hara's tantrums had forced him to apologize" and they hated her more.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

Shortly after this, KARA disintegrated. But despite everything, Hara made a fortune as a commercial model. And there is nothing that netizens hate more than a successful, independent and wealthy woman. Especially if she achieves so despite public hate. And even more, if this successful, independent and wealthy woman is best friends with another successful, independent and wealthy woman (Sulli) that netizens also tried to destroy. And so, Goo Hara moved on with her life, even though the hate never stopped.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

On September 4, 2018, Goo Hara (who is 1.64 and is so thin that she has been accused of being anorexic) was accused of beating her boyfriend. For the following week there were no signs of Hara, while the boyfriend appeared in the media several times a day giving interviews about it, and saying that she had gone crazy when he tried to end the relationship. He said he wasn't going to go public at first but when he got home he realized she had "disfigured" him and his face "is a big part of how he makes a living" (he's a hairdresser) so he decided to let everyone know the type of person she is. At some point the guy gave an interview in a hospital gown and connected to serum, despite having given interviews without these things several days before, and the hospital records shows he only had scratches. But despite being suspicious, the netizens did not need more, and cited what happened on radio star, her promiscuity and her friendship with Sulli as evidence of her violence and imbalance, and demanded jail time for Hara.

Time after that, Hara finally appeared on the media, which she had not done because she had been hospitalized due to the beating that the boyfriend (the alleged victim) gave her. Attack that damaged her internal organs to the degree of causing severe bleeding. Incidentally, there was damage to her intimate organs, so a rape is suspected, although it was never confirmed as such. And although Hara presented evidence and a witness, the netizens did not believe her, they said that she paid the witness and that, because she was promiscuous, her word had no worth. It was then that Dispatch revealed that the boyfriend had offered them the premise of the matter, then screenshots of the guy blackmailing Hara with an intimate video that he filmed against her will came to light. Just then the netizens decided to listen to her. The witness (Hara's roomie) came out to give her version of the facts: the guy had entered without permission with the access code and had woken Hara by kicking the bed. The witness and the messages proved that Hara had broke up with him and he wanted to blackmail her with the intimate video and threatened to end her career, Hara tried to take the video, and the guy beat her up. After that, he destroyed averything and anything he could find at the apartment, while Hara begged him not to publish the video. In the week that Hara was hospitalized the guy sent her threats and fragments of the video as blackmail.

For a while Hara had the empathy of the netizens, but the case was never resolved judicially, and the public eventually forgot what happened and attacked Hara again. This year Hara uploaded a photo to her social media for the first time, thanking the support she received in those difficult moments. And the netizens accused her of attention seeking, they said that if she was really hurt she shouldn't be on social media after what happened, and accused her of being unaware of the damage she caused her ex - who could no longer show his face in public. Soon she went to Japan to fulfill previous contracts and they accused her of fleeing, of indifference and said that what had happened hadn't been so serious if she was already working and she had made a big drama for nothing. Meanwhile the ex is active in social media and opened a new beauty salon, which was very successful. And as if that were not enough, the ex-boyfriend, Junghyun (B2ST) ended up entangled in the Seungri/Rising Sun scandal. And although it has been said that he was not an active participant beyond commenting on the videos that JJY sent, the netizens insisted that there were videos and intimate photos of Hara in the infamous chats.

After this, Hara uploaded a picture and netizens accused her of getting plastic surgery. Hara said that she had eyelid surgery for medical reasons and asked people to stop attacking her, but the netizens ignored and attacked her for the surgery.

May 25th 2019, Hara was found unconscious in her apartment. It was said it had been a suicide attempt. This incident, unlike others in the world of kpop, did not have a wave of positive and empathetic comments wishing her recovery, but the comments were insults, offenses and ridicule towards Hara. They even reproached her for her lack of success in committing suicide, accused her of faking it, said that the news were false to get attention and attacked her more than ever.

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

Soon after that Hara los her best friend.

This news were devastating but they were not a surprise, at least to me. I made a post about Sulli's passing asking people to support Hara, because I knew that she would be next. She had already tried. And she got hate for not succeeding.

A lot of the kpop fandom now wasn't around for most of the second generation mess. We had idols poisoned, attacked, and destroyed by netizens. There still are many idols victims of slave contracts and abuse but back then you saw the proof of those things regularly. With idols passing out and stuff.

Korea, specifically its treatment of celebrities is crap. Its inhuman. As international fans we should spread love for idols. And ask the companies to care for them, we should watch for their best interests as humans. What Hyuna and Edawn are doing, going on variety shows and doing photoshoots together as a couple is huge. What Mamamoo has been doing is huge. What Holland is doing is huge. Please support the idols who are actively fighting to change Koreas celebrity culture. ITS IMPORTANT.

And its important to know the stories of idols like Hara, Hangeng, T-ARA... because this idols were victims and where given nothing but hate. Hate that ended their careers or in Hara and Sulli's case, their lives. Hate kills. Haters kill. Not allowing people to live a plenty life, kills. Not allowing people to make mistakes, kills. I hope you read Hara's story and pay attention to female idols with a bad reputation, they're vulnerable in so many ways. And I hope that, in the future, when an idol survives a suicide attempt y'all wont ignore it like you did Hara.

REST IN PEACEšŸ™šŸ’”šŸ’”šŸ™

Goo Hara's Story Is One Of The Most Tragic And Rough In Kpop History. And In Light Of The Recent Events,

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5 years ago

I don’t know if you guys have heard about pridefall yet, but here’s the gist (from a Discord server):

-I don’t see a post on this yet, so I want to bring attention to it. There is something happening on June 1st called operation pride fall, the only forms or social media considered to be safe are qoutve and discord, there is also talk of mass murdering, raping, and threatening people of the LGBTQ+ community. Please stay inside and be careful, I would recommend turning off your social media for the day as well, because they plan on going through TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc. and looking on small accounts to see who has their sexuality or gender identity in that persons bio, and they will be commenting and DMing terrible homophobic and threatening text to members of the LGBTQ+ community.

Please be mindful! I know I’m a small blog so not many people will see this so um…

I hate to tag you, but, @official-lucifers-child , can you boost this? Sorry for the trouble.


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