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This is very out of the blue
But-
Just wanted to talk about
How LITERALLY EVERYONE IN MY LIFE, knew I was Bi, before I did.
And like, there were signs, like, HUGE signs, they were SO obvious.
And I was too homophobic with myself to accept that.
I was completely cool with non straight and non cis people, and supported them 100%.
But when it came to ME, I was just not going to accept it!
Kept INSISTING that I was straight and cis! Like, “I like guys, so I can’t be gay!” “I don’t feel like a guy, so I can’t be trans!” And just wouldn’t let myself accept that I was Bi and Enby.
I even SAID I was Bi, like, before I knew for sure that I wasn’t straight.
I was a tomboy when I was younger, I accidentally came out to my grandma and a random employee at a shoe store-
As I was shopping for shoes with my grandma, I picked out some boyish shoes, and my grandma asked “wouldn’t you want something for girls?”
And out of NOWHERE, I said “They’re not JUST for boys, I should know, I’m bisexual.”
…………
I MEANT to say TOMBOY, which is, which, does not EVEN sound like bisexual.
And I was embarrassed, cause like, HOW?! Does that happen?!
I’m still embarrassed about that to this day!
I’m just HOPING that my grandma forgot about that day, cause it has traumatized me deeply-
Oh, I hope that employee doesn’t remember also-
……
She was cute-
ANYWAYS-
All my friends knew I was Bi, they always asked me if I was Bi. Like, they never asked if I was straight or gay, or pan….they just asked if I was Bi!
I’m not upset about it, it’s just so weird that I was so self conscious about that for so long!
I had cuffed jeans that I liked wearing when I was younger, but because everyone kept saying I was Bi because of the cuffs, I ended up cutting the cuffs to go down. That’s how self conscious I was!
It took A LOT of time for me to accept that I was not straight.
But when I finally accepted it, it felt, so awesome!
When I came out, literally, no one was surprised.
They were all like “We already knew that.” And I was like “But HOW?! How did you all know before I did?”
And all they had to say was “We just got that vibe from you-“
And like, yeah, looking back on literally EVERYTHING I’VE EVER DONE IN MY ENTIRE LIFE-
I see it. And should’ve definitely known sooner.
I made Luz & Amity on Picrew, and I’m honestly not disappointed with how I made them!
(The Sexualities & Genders are just my headcanons.)
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Sorry- 😅
are you autistic and gay?
lesbian and autistic perhaps?
an autistic pan or bisexual?
asexual and autistic?
trans or non binary and autistic?
any autistic member of the LGBTQ+ community?
well guess what...
you're fucken great and I love you
I just came out to my mom. It was surprisingly, the chillest conversation I’ve ever had with her.
Now, I’ve come out to my friends, my siblings, my grandma and aunt, and now the next person to come out to, is my dad…
I’ll edit this post once I talk to him about it tomorrow, I’m really scared, wish me luck-
EDIT: He’s confused, but he’s trying his best to understand! :D
Back at the party, I was so scared and nervous to talk to anyone or even LOOK at anyone-
But, somehow, I ended up making a friend, and honestly, I think I’m gonna like him. It looks like they already like me.
His name is Tedrick.
hi hi!! i love all your moodboards sm <3 if you take requests can you do an aceflux bi moodboard? if not then feel free to ignore this ^^
Hi!
Aceflux bi moodboard for you
I hope you like it <3
Asexual, biromantic moodboard
Hey tumblr, so I'm officially coming out to tumblr as biromantic or homoromantic, and this is just so I can write my thoughts, sorry if I get any terms wrong so hgsfhshfsgh here we go:
I know I'm asexual, so that's like the only thing im pretty certain of in this text, I've know that for about a year now. But like I used to only have crushes on boys, but i could never imagine holding hands with or kissing or hugging a boy romantically, but I still felt nervous and blushy around them, but I feel nervous and blushy around all boys I'm not super good friends with, but more so with the boys I had a crush on. Then i had my first real(i think?)crush on a female i had been friends with for a while and like it wasn't like the others cuz I could imagine kissing and hugging her romantically, and then I started to notice how I would be 10 times more comfortable kissing a girl than a boy but like I've never thought I was gay/bi/pan/whatever so I think I'm biromantic???? I've had crushes on guys and now on girls but they were very different. Idk really if you know pls tell me