i’m gonna hold your hand with a glove on when i say this
when disabled/chronically ill people tell you they can’t do something, then that is not your cue to tell them that they can actually or that they’ll always find an excuse if they’re looking for one.
when a disabled/chronically ill person says they can’t do something, sometimes that doesn’t mean it’s outside the realm of possibility, sometimes it means if they (attempted to) do that, they will seriously hurt themselves.
when a disabled/chronically ill person says they can’t do something, sometimes it’s preventative care, and they refuse to do that thing to prevent a flare up from happening/their symptoms getting worse in the first place.
disabled/chronically ill people are not “looking for excuses”, they are giving you reasons why. something they don’t even have to do! so maybe just accept the reasons they give you.
I am no longer explaining my chronic illnesses. I'm only ominously referencing them like I'm a fantasy realm NPC dropping plot hooks:
I am besieged by the affliction
The ritual was successful, but it has drained me. I need time to recuperate.
I can't do that, because of The Curse
Dark forces are conspiring within me. I must conserve my strength to battle them.
Unseen foes assault me. I cannot strike back with blows, but I can lessen their influence by consuming certain alchemical rites.
(Not pictured: the adoring fan finds him and then suddenly the plot of Oblivion turns into Steven King’s Misery)
in honor of the Oblivion remaster coming out I'd like to remind everyone of this absolute classic that singlehandedly changed my entire attitude towards life
Thank Bella Luna and her fluffy ears for being so obliging on this random winter day.
I got to experience Skyrim irl (minus the frost trolls)
I made these calming Skyrim hiking videos so I could watch them on my lunch break at work or fall asleep to. ALL COMBAT IS DISABLED and there are many more videos at different locations. These are my gift to the world I don’t make money from it. 💚
Whimsical glass fawn wallpaper
Clean Up
Shmendrick told me he wants to be your new wallpaper 🌹
The roses are rosing 🌹
Bravo and thank you, Canada. 🫶
"Rent is theft"
Throwback to the time I made a cool Destiny 2 edit.
Playing with procreate
Kitana would like everyone to know that she is a real panther.
🌸My favorite tree🌸