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How did I become dominant?

One of the questions I get asked the most here on Tumblr is ‘how did you become dominant?’ and ‘how can I get my girlfriend to be more dominant?’ Well, I wasn’t always like that…

The first thing that happened was my boyfriend asking me to call him my slave. At first I didn’t really know what to think and I didn’t really enjoy calling him my slave. Then he asked me to spank him and tie him up so I tried but I wasn’t always in the mood for it.

I think it was after being 2.5 years together that I told him about my Tumblr profile. He loved the idea so I deleted my old one and made a new one (this one) and he made one too. We showed each other a lot of things that we liked here on Tumblr and we started experimenting a bit.

The first thing we discovered that I really liked were ruined orgasms. I loved seeing him so frustrated and still horny after I made him ‘cum’. Because I finally discovered something I really enjoyed, we started to do more tease and denial and I loved it. I loved controlling his orgasms but sometimes, he would still masturbate when I wasn’t there and that was something I never liked.

After a lot of ruined orgasms, my boyfriend showed me a Tumblr page named ‘keephimcaged’. We had seen caged men on Tumblr before and I always said I didn’t like the idea because I love his penis and I love sex. Then I discovered locktober. I was curious about the tasks during locktober so when locktober started, I read the introduction and the first task. I discovered that chasity doesn’t mean not having sex anymore and you can do whatever you want with it. It gave me a whole new perspective on the caging thing. The tasks seemed so nice so we joined locktober without a cage. We were just being creative. After a few days of locktober, I told him I wanted a cage. He wasn’t really sure but he was curious and he wanted to try. So yes it was my idea, surprised?

I think we were 10 days into locktober and he gave up. Although we had our safe words, something went wrong. We talked about it and we still can’t figure out completely how it went wrong but it did. He didn’t want to use the safe words because he thought he could handle it but it seemed like he didn’t really know his own limits and all of a sudden it was too late. I was frustrated because I finally felt completely dominant and I really loved it for the first time ever. Luckily, we are a strong couple and we kept talking. He still wanted to be my slave but I think it had become a bit too hard mentally during locktober. After that, I became very careful because I didn’t want to go over his limits again. I felt bad, really bad and I didn’t know what to do. After a while, he told me he was 100% sure he still wanted all of this. He just needed a break. 

So we started over but this time, we took our time and we are still taking our time. I am reminding him of the safe words very often. In the beginning, I had a hard time being completely dominant again but he kept making sure I could do whatever I want and he would use the safe words sooner. Now, we are both really enjoying it. We still need to figure some things out together but as long as we keep talking to each other, everything will be fine. I love being dominant and he loves being my slave, that is one thing we are sure of.

So for the boys out there who want their girl to be dominant: give her time, don’t rush things, talk to each other, try things out… There was never one moment of going from vanilla sex to this. It just changed over time. In the past, I didn’t like a lot of things that I love doing now but everyone is different. This is just our story and our experience. We grew in it together. 

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