0nyancat0
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How most radfems feel after only ever advocating for American and European woman and only bringing up women in Asia,Africa, south and Central America when they can use it as a way to prove how awful men are and never providing any sources to help
Anyways…. Here’s how you can help
https://www.unwomen.org/en/about-us
Help and support
pappyorion on TikTok who helps women and children who are victims of rape in the Congo and works with focus Congo
Manyhopes on TikTok who helps provide children in Ghana with an education and saves them from child slavery
If you know any more repost and comment
Except it isn’t at the expense of others
A women’s life is more valuable than a fetus who has a possibility of life
The woman is alive not the fetus
In all of your scenarios where a woman would want/need an abortion it would involve consensual sex completely ignoring rape victims and little girls
Sometimes abortion is the answer
Sure maybe doctors don’t know enough about the female body to provide an alternative for abortion, but that is the only thing that is available as of right now that could help woman and girls while health advances are being made
Unpopular opinion: "Abortions are a lifesaving medical procedure" = "We don't know anything about the female body and we refuse to learn, so we sold women this procedure that kills their young and we packaged it all pretty to convince women that it's empowering. But don't point that out or think for yourself about it."
Seeing clips of the Lily Phillips interview was truly heart breaking and only reinforces the fact that sex work especially prostitution will never be liberating and only further damages a woman’s mental health and body
For context for anyone who doesn’t know
Lily Phillips was originally only an only fans star but recently slept with 100 men in one go, for free, and filmed it.
In the interview towards the end you see her begin to cry, dissociate, and not even be able to describe how she feels
One thing that really stuck out to me is that she says she felt bad for not being able to fully please all the men and that made it all click for me that she did all of this to feel male validation and got more than what she bargained for.
To punish herself and “put”herself through such an intense trauma makes me feel like the people in her life took advantage of her vulnerability and her wanting to please and exploited it
A tale as old as time
I Can’t stand the people saying that she asked for it or that it’s her fault because she set it up when it’s very obvious she is not in the correct headspace to do things like that, no one is, I really see things like this as a form of self harm and punishment
I really hope she is able to get the help she needs and is able to safely leave the sex industry(slavery)
So glad we can come to a good conclusion 🫶🫶💗 much love and may peace be with you always💖
I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree
You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people
I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)
I do agree by a lot with your points
thank you if you read that
😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!
I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans
I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been
It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me
One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset
I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you
Much love 💖🫶
I do think trans women should have their own movement and that’s the way it’s always been up until now, I do think this generation is trying to hard to accommodate to everyone’s feelings which is just resulting in even more problems.
Trans women are brought up on my page a lot because a lot of rad fems seems very upset at the fact that I don’t care to call trans women he’s and refuse to put all trans women in a generalized box of women haters who’s main goal in life is to torment women. I think anyone with common sense can agree that not all trans women are like that.
I should have made it clearer that to me anyone who isn’t from my tribe is an outsider
I agree that I will also never closely affiliate with white women out of my own safety but I will help a white women if she is struggling or is being abused
All women are included in my feminism I just hold white women at an arms length because as a native women I have seen what they are capable of causing with their words and fake tears
My feminism doesn’t include trans women because like I said the original starters of the trans rights movement had their own movement
My humanitarianism includes everyone (mostly, not abusers ect)
I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree
You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people
I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)
I do agree by a lot with your points
thank you if you read that
😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!
I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans
I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been
It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me
One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset
I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you
Much love 💖🫶
Trans women may not have struggled to the degree as women but you have to acknowledge there was a point in time where a transwomen would be killed and nothing was done about it and were subject to deadly hate crimes.
Acknowledging that transwomen have struggles doesn’t take away from women’s struggle even if it has not been to the degree women have
White women absolutely have privilege because of their race and there are some who see women as color as non human and below them in every aspect.
And I didn’t say I chose anyone, it’s a fact that not all trans women are after women and it’s a fact that not all white women actually care about what happens to women of color
Saying that white women are scared of you ain’t a flex, they are scared of you because they see you are threat because of your race and that has lead to the death of many black women, a white women will absolutely deny your humanity because that’s what they have done to black women and native women,
I fight for all women’s rights however white women do not do the same
I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree
You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people
I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)
I do agree by a lot with your points
thank you if you read that
😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!
I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans
I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been
It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me
One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset
I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you
Much love 💖🫶
Hate the hashtags you added, screams white women in trouble,
It really shows how you truly don’t bother to understand why I won’t see white women as my allies when the only reason (mostly) white women care about issues that happen to women of color are either because it has begun to affect them, or to use it as a point as to why they hate men and to never do anything to actively help them and even now you are trying to cry victim because I “include men but not white women”
White women have never included women of color into their feminism unless it also benefited them
The only reason they bring up women in Palestine, Congo, or Afghanistan is to prove how awful men are not to actually help, I have rarely ever seen a white women care about what happens to women of color
We women of color especially in America have had to fight for our rights way harder than white women and that is just a fact, sorry not sorry if you got your feelings hurt by a women of color stating the obvious that most white women will never see women like me as equals
The prejudice some women face isn’t just because of their sex but also because of their race or ethnicity
White feminism at its finest lol
I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree
You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people
I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)
I do agree by a lot with your points
thank you if you read that
😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!
I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans
I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been
It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me
One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset
I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you
Much love 💖🫶
I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree
You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people
I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)
I do agree by a lot with your points
thank you if you read that
😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!
I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans
I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been
It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me
One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset
I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you
Much love 💖🫶
So female doctors don’t have an understanding of the female body but somehow you a random tumblr user do?
Literally where have you heard about it being used as birth control? That is literally just a conspiracy theory used to push the agenda that women cannot control themselves and need a man to regulate them and make rules for them
It isn’t “technically” true, it is true that there are many circumstances where a women would need an abortion. Especially a child
If a women chooses to not follow through with a pregnancy it is her choice,
You’re acting as if women aren’t allowed to enjoy sex and simultaneously not want a child, not everyone is cut out to be a mother wether that be for financial or mental reasons and I would much rather a women get an abortion than put a child into a dangerous situation. Women who have been victims of rape should not be forced to birth a child they never wanted.
Even if that were true how would making it illegal affect the women who do need it? They would not be able to access it and that is exactly what is happening right now.
Unpopular opinion: "Abortions are a lifesaving medical procedure" = "We don't know anything about the female body and we refuse to learn, so we sold women this procedure that kills their young and we packaged it all pretty to convince women that it's empowering. But don't point that out or think for yourself about it."
I agree that is because of misogyny that we don’t know as much about the female body
But saying that an abortion is not a life saving procedure when women have died because they were not able to receive one is erasure of those women who have died as a result of misogynistic policy’s
If medically trained female doctors are saying abortions will save women’s lives and we need to make them legal, we need to listen to them
No one is glamorizing or making abortion “pretty” people are trying to remove the stigma and demonization that women who have had abortions receive
The fetus has the potential to become a baby but is it not a baby, women who receive abortions should not feel like murderers or like they have done something morally wrong
A women’s life is more valuable than a fetuses life
Unpopular opinion: "Abortions are a lifesaving medical procedure" = "We don't know anything about the female body and we refuse to learn, so we sold women this procedure that kills their young and we packaged it all pretty to convince women that it's empowering. But don't point that out or think for yourself about it."
In my culture we do, I never said women can’t be two spirited tf? It’s disconnected from your reality not mine or my peoples, and I am trying to talk to you about peacefully coexisting because I have experienced it in my tribe. It’s crazy seeing how violent and divided outsiders are, of course I know it’s because of men, but it’s sad when I see outsider women not even being able to fathom a world where we all can coexist…. Very sad
I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok
I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community
What do y’all think?
My culture is not wrong, that was an insane thing to say especially when we can all co exist without issues, trans men, trans women, women, and men.
We don’t view gender as just biology so I am disconnected from patriarchal views on gender and sex
I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok
I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community
What do y’all think?
1. She said she knew SOME women with pcos not all the women in the world with pcos nor did she say that all women felt the need to shave ect
2. It is just a fact that someone needs to put effort into their transition to got into the societal standard. You cannot look at those two people and say they are at the dance point of their transition
I genuinely don’t understand the hate the trans community gets, I know there are bad people in that community but that’s just the way the world is, there are bad people everywhere
It’s weird to me seeing how in places like Thailand or in my culture trans women are seen as two spirited, not women but not men either, or are seen as a different kind of women.
I Don’t really understand the hate because I come from a culture where it is accepted
I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok
I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community
What do y’all think?
I don’t know what you mean by sexualized, I don’t see how she is sexualized?
I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok
I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community
What do y’all think?
I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok
I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community
What do y’all think?
Adding onto this
Since a young age we are taught to compete with other women with our ability to please men sexually, I hate hearing songs about how much “better” their privates are than another women
Like who actually gives af about your ability to sexually please other than a man who wants nothing more than to see women go against each other and compete to see who can please him better
A man describing your ability to please as a reason to why he is with you or keeps you around is a man who sees you as an object for relief not a human being
Bragging about your ability to please a man is only degrading
Brag about having a career and education not sex 🗣️🗣️
How is giving a man a blowjob “woman focused” when that action only benefits men. Her actions are not entertaining people are only cheering her on because she’s humiliating herself. Liberal feminists really believe that every single action a woman chooses to make is “empowering”.
I recently returned back to my tribal land in Mesoamérica and it feels so good to have the government off our necks for once.
I Can’t speak for all the tribes but being able to govern ourselves has been so nice especially when it comes to crimes against women
For hundreds of years women of my tribe have been raped and violated by outsiders without any perpetrators facing consequences but now since the former and now president have made it to where we can decide the rules and punishments in our tribe, their punishment is to burn
Literally they are burned alive as punishment and it sends a message to any other men who think of committing sexual crimes against women, this has greatly decreased the amount of sexual assaults
We don’t have government presence in our tribe and do not allow government police or military so it’s only men from our community who keep the community safe,
I have always thought of misogyny as a European ideology since historically in my tribe men and women have both ruled and one was never seen as less than. We are able to coexist together and it is something I wish for all society’s but unfortunately men have become power hungry
⭐️Please let me know if you have any questions about my culture ⭐️
Insulting my intelligence doesn’t achieve anything, i have my options and you have yours,
Just because you think you are right doesn’t make your opinion more valuable than mine
Im so tired of hearing “people like you” when you don’t know me and then end up being wrong about what i think
Saying it’s worse for me to see a women do something bad to another women is not holding women to a high standard it’s basic human nature to want to see someone who has gone through similar struggle not Inflict similar pain onto someone else who has also experienced said pain
When i said bad women I ment women who : help men put other women and girls in sexual slavery, put their children in danger for the sake of keeping a man, women who rape, women who have killed their children ect
Granted women have not committed violent crime as often or as horrific as men
But some people think women can do no wrong and are not violent by nature unlike men when that is just continuing a stereotype that women are fragile nurturers who aren’t capable of violence
Saying there are terrible people who happen to be women is not something new or that should be controversial it’s just a fact, the stereotype that we can’t be violent and are the victim in every situation needs to stop. We are individuals who are capable of anything even if it’s not good
I agree completely with this post
What do y’all think?
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I am not threatened or feel at danger with transwomen because I am secure in my womanhood and see a future for myself without misogyny,
If a cis man wants to enter women’s restrooms to prey on women he will, many of these predators just use being trans as an excuse to be in women’s restrooms without actually being trans
I think saying that any choice a women makes is based on how misogyny has effected her and how women will never truly have free will is like submitting to misogyny and accepting “fate”
Any woman who truly believes that women can do no wrong and so wrong it baffles me
To me personally it’s worse when a women commits a horrible crime against another woman it’s worse than a man doing it since I expect it from a man and not a woman who goes through similar societal struggles,
We need to hold bad women accountable for their actions instead of saying “well it doesn’t happen as often” or “well men do it more so it’s not as much of a problem”
Never said that trans women were the “better women”
I’ve seen a lot of women feel like trans women being accepted into female spaces takes away from their struggle or the prejudice they face when that is simply not true
Nothing can take away our achievements and what we have struggled through
Some rad fems use misogynistic trans women as a “gotcha” moment but that is not true for most of the trans community and there are unfortunately women haters everywhere
I actually think bathrooms like that should be changed into individual booths so everyone can have more privacy instead of those insane gaps American ones have
I agree completely with this post
What do y’all think?
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I am not threatened or feel at danger with transwomen because I am secure in my womanhood and see a future for myself without misogyny,
If a cis man wants to enter women’s restrooms to prey on women he will, many of these predators just use being trans as an excuse to be in women’s restrooms without actually being trans
I think saying that any choice a women makes is based on how misogyny has effected her and how women will never truly have free will is like submitting to misogyny and accepting “fate”
Any woman who truly believes that women can do no wrong and so wrong it baffles me
I agree completely with this post
What do y’all think?
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I am not threatened or feel at danger with transwomen because I am secure in my womanhood and see a future for myself without misogyny,
If a cis man wants to enter women’s restrooms to prey on women he will, many of these predators just use being trans as an excuse to be in women’s restrooms without actually being trans
I think saying that any choice a women makes is based on how misogyny has effected her and how women will never truly have free will is like submitting to misogyny and accepting “fate”
Any woman who truly believes that women can do no wrong and so wrong it baffles me
This guy is obviously a troll, I already responded to him, it’s so weird how these guys who claim to advocate for male victim always do so by belittle the abuse women go through
It’s a shame men who actually try to bring awareness to sexual abuse get overshadowed by men like this
I genuinely think dd/lg and cnc are such disgusting “kinks”
People use the excuse of it being a “coping mechanism” but how is acting like a child who is getting rapped healing in any way
Not only that, but the disgusting men who are into these kinks are obviously preying on vulnerable women who have been abused and use them as an outlet to their perverted and disgusting fantasies that would get them sent to jail
I think any woman who says she enjoys this kink is just confused and is so deep in the cycle of abuse that she can’t see what’s wrong with it
I understand there’s a difference between age play and age regression
Childish things or any form of child imagery or role play should not be involved in anything sexual and only continues a cycle of abuse against women and girls
What do you think?
Men do a fine job of demonizing themselves lol
I Don’t treat fully grown women as idiots, in this post I’m talking about women who being taken advantage of and being abused by men who prey on them specifically to use them as a sexual outlet for their pedophilic fantasy
I talk specifically about women’s issues because I am a women,
Yes there are predatory women as well but you trying to take attention away from women being abused by saying “b-but men get abused too!” Is not helping anyone
Yes men can also be sexually abused and taken advantage of but that’s just not what this post is about, there’s a time and place
This post isn’t to “whine about men” it’s to point how pedophiles use kink as an excuse to justify their perversions
Learn media literacy and how to properly read before talking out of your ass
If you actually wanted to raise awareness for abused men you wouldn’t bother doing so under a post raising awareness about women’s abuse
Saying my post is disrespectful to women is so ironic considering the post you have made
@actualadvocacybruh
I genuinely think dd/lg and cnc are such disgusting “kinks”
People use the excuse of it being a “coping mechanism” but how is acting like a child who is getting rapped healing in any way
Not only that, but the disgusting men who are into these kinks are obviously preying on vulnerable women who have been abused and use them as an outlet to their perverted and disgusting fantasies that would get them sent to jail
I think any woman who says she enjoys this kink is just confused and is so deep in the cycle of abuse that she can’t see what’s wrong with it
I understand there’s a difference between age play and age regression
Childish things or any form of child imagery or role play should not be involved in anything sexual and only continues a cycle of abuse against women and girls
What do you think?
I genuinely think dd/lg and cnc are such disgusting “kinks”
People use the excuse of it being a “coping mechanism” but how is acting like a child who is getting rapped healing in any way
Not only that, but the disgusting men who are into these kinks are obviously preying on vulnerable women who have been abused and use them as an outlet to their perverted and disgusting fantasies that would get them sent to jail
I think any woman who says she enjoys this kink is just confused and is so deep in the cycle of abuse that she can’t see what’s wrong with it
I understand there’s a difference between age play and age regression
Childish things or any form of child imagery or role play should not be involved in anything sexual and only continues a cycle of abuse against women and girls
What do you think?
There are drag queen who definitely take things out of proportion but for the most part of what I’ve seen a lot of gay men who do drag struggle with gender dysphoria and use drag as an outlet to express that side of them .
Drag is very much an art form that anyone can participate in , it is not exclusive to gay men
For many gay men drag is more of an alter ego sort of thing because they do not go by women and make jokes while in drag about not being women
There is misogyny in the gay community but it is important to remember that a small group of bad people does not identify a whole community
Any good drag queen knows they got everything from a women, style, makeup, music everything
Of course there are drag queen who are misogynistic because there will always be men everywhere that are misogynistic
I don’t think many people are out here assuming women are acting how those obscene drag queens act plus in general as someone who has gone to drag shows and is active in the drag community a lot of those “drag queens” are very much outcasted
They definitely deserve to get hated on and removed of their platforms
What do y’all think?
It's weird that men do drag to make fun of gender but the gender they make fun of is......women? Wouldn't it make more sense to make fun of hyper-masculinist gender roles that marginalize gay men- wearing big fake muscles and acting like an egoic idiot? Having skits about men getting their ego bruised by irrelevant bullshit? Fighting over nonsense? Being pigs? People will be like, "Well, Drag Kings exist". First of all, I don't even think Drag Kings parody and lampoon masculinity the way drag queens do feminity. I haven't seen many drag kings (they're damn near non-existent/invisible) but when I do, it's never them acting like clown men. The portrayal seems..... reverent. There are some reverent Drag Queens too, like some queens would do a character like Beyonce or Diana Ross with great respect. But there also exists A LOT of clownery: drag characters as slutty, airhead, bimbos, with their abortions and tampons hanging out, making blow job face- that kinda thing. What a coincidence this portrayal of feminity is more popular/has more cultural influence than Drag Kings and that making fun of "gender" has manifested in just...relentlessly shitting on women. Surprise surprise.
sorry but where are you from that women aren’t stereotyped against 💀
I’m Native American
Wot 🧍🏽♀️lol
I understand how a lot of women do not want womanhood and the being a woman be reduced to just our genitals and I also see how other women do not want womanhood to be defined by stereotypes or what society thinks a woman is and use biology as a way to define it,
However in my culture women have never been seen as weak and have never had negative stereotypes put on us so I think I do have a disconnect to women who define being a woman with our genitalia and tend to agree with the first more
Women in my culture are seen as strong warriors, protectors, nurtures etc so I never minded those things defining womanhood and femininity in my community I do however have a problem with how the patriarchy sees us
What do y’all think?
I understand how a lot of women do not want womanhood and the being a woman be reduced to just our genitals and I also see how other women do not want womanhood to be defined by stereotypes or what society thinks a woman is and use biology as a way to define it,
However in my culture women have never been seen as weak and have never had negative stereotypes put on us so I think I do have a disconnect to women who define being a woman with our genitalia and tend to agree with the first more
Women in my culture are seen as strong warriors, protectors, nurtures etc so I never minded those things defining womanhood and femininity in my community I do however have a problem with how the patriarchy sees us
What do y’all think?
Did anyone else notice they made Farrah taller in mw3?
She used to be at Prices and Alex’s shoulders and now she reaches half their head
How I sleep at night knowing the weird radfems are triggered by my post while the actual radfems educate me and give me sources on what to read and actually explain stuff to me
For anyone who wanted to know
(probably no one but still here it is)
My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for
I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)
1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex
2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers
3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping
4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem
5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing
I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering
Please let me know your thoughts
I’m not gonna bother to clear up some of the stances you said I support because I already did,
I’m not chronically online I was curious about the movement and wanted to know what it’s beliefs entail but everyone has had given me a slightly different answer than the last person, I’m very young and has never heard of radical feminism before this week
which is crazy because I like the purpose of the movement but a lot of the community is simply insane with no common sense on how to communicate and have a reasonable conversation
In my community feminism is still very controversial and growing up no talk like that was allowed (I’ve also stated this but I grew up in a cult) I’ve grown up sheltered and told that feminism was demonic and I’m trying to repair the damage that was done during that time
The people in this community can’t even agree on its core values as even women from the beginning of the movement have different answers as to what a radical feminist is
Yes I was uneducated on the subject ( like I said I never even knew what radical feminism was until this week ) and I stated that multiple time’s but people are aggressive and so blinded by hate they ignore what I said
I don’t need labels to do activism because I have already done activism and nothing takes that away just because you don’t agree with what I said, again I said I’m not a radical feminist so you saying I’m not literally doesn’t mean anything, I’m not worried about labels the people in this community are
Sure I was uneducated but not because of my own ignorance it’s because of the same patriarchy you hate, again this community prides itself on liberating women but does not help women who want to understand it or learn about it
My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for
I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)
1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex
2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers
3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping
4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem
5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing
I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering
Please let me know your thoughts
Edit
⭐️Some people seem to be confused about this but i was born a woman and will always be a woman, it’s so crazy how other women will try to degrade me as if they were men for disagreeing with them or seeing things differently, i do not like liberal feminism and i never have, and i do not like to label my belief system and prefer to make a more individual standpoint than community⭐️
Another edit lol
⭐️I have never claimed to be a rad fem or that I know everything about rad feminism because I don’t, and that was the purpose of this post, it’s really crazy how people will say they want to educate and liberate women while yelling and degrading me for simply not agreeing with them and proceed to do the same things men do, you are no better than a man, I’ve come to realize that this community strayed from its original purpose and roots and has been taken over by people who want to put in their own two cents and opinion, this community or at least a good portion of it seems like a very miserable community, I have meet a lot of rad fems who have common sense and realize that hate will get them nowhere and being rude to me won’t achieve anything, on the other hand majority of rad fems I’ve meet have misconstrued the movement from what I’ve read and put feelings over facts, I won’t interact to hate and only to genuine discussions ⭐️